Criticizing Yourself
Criticized your boss or co-workers – about the appearance or performance of work in the office – you may have experienced. However, have you ever criticize yourself? If not, you try to start it today. Or, even often, so you impressed underestimate yourself? Well, recognize the benefits of self-criticism plus a portion that fits.
GHOSTS OF THE PAST
Apparently, not the closest person, nor a mortal enemy, your biggest critic. Yourself alone, the answer. It is recognized by Raisa Tanamal (30). Raisa who cannot keep quiet so hated his job is monotonous. He longed for a new, more dynamic job. But, each about to send a curriculum vitae, a negative whisper filled his head, like, “This company wants someone more talented, while my mediocre abilities, or” I do not have advantages that can be offered.
The swift negative criticism of this, the edges off stride before it develops. Courage that ultimately comes when accidentally Raisa showing her portfolio to his friend.
Whispers is also deadly potential is the fear of failure. Where are whispers that devalues it? According to Yuni Lasti Faulinda, HR consultant from Experd, the voices were generally come from past experiences. In an effort to avoid the recurrence of such events in the future, you become proactive, and start the habit of saying error or weakness in yourself, before someone else say it.
If it turns out that negative voice impede the progress of your motion, it means it’s time to do something. The first thing you must do is realizing that the whisper is a separate part of yourself. Yes, he is within you, but he had no right to set the path you will embark.
THERE ARE ALSO BUILD
Actually, not all murmurs from within yourself it is negative. There is also, really, that are giving constructive criticism to achievements. For example, a criticism that can show where the deficiencies themselves.
In addition to criticism that can show where the deficiencies themselves, Yuni Lasti emphatically added that there are three criticisms that are developed, the criticism that can demonstrate fault location, the criticism may reflect the value of life, as well as criticism of a balanced and reasonable.
Whisper that clearly will hamper the smooth working is the criticism that the ability of self-doubt. At excessive levels, the sound is indeed able to make you a person who’s boring.
Actually, not all murmurs were a bad influence. Originally managed by balanced, personal criticism can also produce benefits, the protectors do not to take hasty decisions.
Voices from within it will always come over. But, whisper it will lead to success or defeat it, it all depends on you. The decision is in your hands, because only you who can control himself whisper it.
Tags: HR, Raisa Tanamal, Yuni Lasti
